Embracing Wellness Through the Post-Holiday Season
Embracing Wellness Through the Post-Holiday Season
Hello, families! My name is Katlyn Gotschall, and I am a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor with a private practice called Apricity Counseling. I live in Laurel, Montana, where I enjoy spending time with my child and embracing the beauty of our community. As a therapist, I am passionate about helping people overcome challenges and achieve their full potential. My greatest joy comes from supporting parents, helping them feel validated, understood, and empowered as they navigate the ups and downs of raising children.
In my practice, I specialize in working with individuals who have experienced trauma, PTSD, and other life challenges. I strongly believe in the power of breaking generational cycles of trauma, especially as parents. When we take the time to heal our own wounds, we create healthier, more nurturing environments for our children to grow and thrive.
Beyond working with trauma, I focus on helping individuals and couples with stress, anxiety, grief, and relationship struggles. As both a counselor and a parent, I understand the unique pressures families face and am committed to sharing practical tools and compassionate guidance to help you through every stage of life.
Why Post-Holiday Blues Happen
The holiday season is a time filled with connection, celebration, and high expectations. It’s a whirlwind of activity: family gatherings, school performances, shopping, and making magical moments for your children. While these experiences can be meaningful, they also demand a significant amount of physical, emotional, and financial energy. When January rolls around, many parents find themselves running on empty.
Additionally, the winter months often bring less sunlight and more time indoors, which can affect our mood. This phenomenon, known as Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), impacts millions of people every year. Even if you don’t experience SAD, the gray skies and chilly temperatures can make it harder to feel motivated and optimistic.
The Unique Pressures Parents Face
As parents, we often feel an unspoken pressure to "do it all" and "get it right." This can feel especially intense after the holidays, when expectations for the "perfect" season might not have been fully met. You may be reflecting on the gifts you couldn’t afford, the traditions you didn’t have time for, or the moments that didn’t go as planned. These feelings can lead to guilt, even though you did your very best for your family.
At the same time, children often experience their own post-holiday letdown. The excitement of unwrapping presents and spending extra time with loved ones gives way to the routine of school and extracurricular activities. When kids are cranky, bored, or struggling to adjust, it can add to the emotional load parents are already carrying.
Small Steps Toward Renewal
If you’re feeling the weight of this season, you’re not alone. The good news is that there are simple, effective ways to care for yourself and your family as you navigate these weeks. Here are some ideas to help lighten the load:
1. Acknowledge Your Feelings
It’s okay to feel tired, stressed, or even sad during this time. These emotions are a natural response to the demands and changes of the season. Give yourself permission to feel what you’re feeling without judgment. When you acknowledge your emotions, you take the first step toward managing them.
2. Prioritize Rest and Routine
After weeks of late nights and irregular schedules, returning to a consistent routine can be grounding for both you and your children. Try to prioritize regular sleep, balanced meals, and downtime. These small changes can have a big impact on everyone’s mood and energy.
3. Get Outside
Even if it’s cold, spending time outdoors can boost your mood and help you feel more connected. Bundle up and take a family walk, go sledding, or simply enjoy the fresh air. Exposure to natural light, even on cloudy days, is beneficial for mental health.
4. Set Realistic Goals
It’s tempting to start the year with ambitious resolutions, but this can add unnecessary pressure. Instead, focus on small, achievable goals that align with your values and current energy level. For example, commit to spending 10 minutes a day on self-care or having one family meal together each week.
5. Ask for Help
Parenting is hard work, and you don’t have to do it alone. Lean on your support network, whether that’s a partner, friend, or trusted daycare provider. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, consider reaching out to a counselor like myself for additional support. Sometimes, just having a space to talk can make all the difference.
Building Resilience in Your Family
As you care for yourself, you’ll also be modeling healthy habits for your children. Talk openly with them about feelings, both positive and negative, and encourage them to express what’s on their mind. This helps build emotional intelligence and resilience—skills that will serve them well throughout life.
You might also create simple family traditions to look forward to during this quieter time of year. Whether it’s a weekly movie night, a special meal, or a creative project, these moments can bring joy and connection while easing the post-holiday slump.
Moving Forward Together
The post-holiday season can be challenging, but it also offers an opportunity to slow down, reflect, and reset. By focusing on self-compassion, realistic expectations, and meaningful connections, you can navigate this season with greater ease. Remember, you’re doing important work as a parent, and it’s okay to seek support when you need it.
If you’d like to learn more about how I can support you and your family during this season or beyond, please feel free to reach out. At Apricity Counseling, I’m here to provide a warm and understanding space where you can explore your concerns and find the tools you need to thrive.
Wishing you peace and renewal in this New Year!
Katlyn Gotschall, LCPC
Katlyn is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor (LCPC) and the founder of Apricity Counseling LLC. With a bachelor’s degree in Human Services and a master’s in Clinical Rehabilitation and Mental Health Counseling, Katlyn brings nearly eight years of experience in mental health settings to her practice.
Katlyn is dedicated to helping clients navigate stress, anxiety, grief, depression, and life transitions. She also supports individuals facing trauma, postpartum challenges, self-esteem concerns, and compassion fatigue. Inspired by the meaning of "apricity"—the warmth of the sun on a winter day—her practice reflects her commitment to providing a safe, welcoming environment for healing and growth.
Currently offering telehealth services with a sliding scale and most insurances accepted, Katlyn looks forward to expanding to in-person care in the future. She also integrates Christian-based therapy when appropriate, tailoring her approach to meet the unique needs of each client.
Outside of her career, Katlyn cherishes her roles as a wife and mother. She enjoys traveling, engaging with her community, and savoring her favorite obsession—coffee. Guided by the words of John A. Shedd, "A ship in a harbor is safe, but that is not what ships are built for," Katlyn believes therapy isn’t easy, but it's a tool provided to make challenges feel less lonely.
